What rocks your boat?!!
I read it on Qwaider’s and it made me Want to talk about it..
Looks, what it means to us?
Every body cares what his kids or a friend’s kid look like…we tend to like cute babies…extra beautiful ones have an easy life ahead of them from the day they saw light all the way up to education and marriage and work…people tend to worship beauty!!
Every body cares about the looks of his mate…wether male or female…
Everyone get to have a certain impression about their friends when they see them for the first time, and usually it is based on looks…
You’d find yourself liking your dentist if he/she looked good:S
Exceptions hit that just like everything else…it raises most eye brows when ever we see a very very handsome man deeply in love with a woman who is really really unattractive…and vice a versa…
So…what rocks their boats? What rocks your boat??!!
I think that we get used to how our friends, kids and spouses look like after a while…and we get attached to the soul and personality behind any degree of looks…
Some times people fall for someone who is obviously having a serious flaw…and they fall in love at first sight…how come??
What would touch you more? The loving look in his/her eyes when he/she looks at you or the color of it?
Spirits bond, think how does blind people fall in love?آ آ آ آ آ
How do a lot of unprivileged mental patients fall in love? They even tend to be more romantic than any ordinary couple…
It’s the spiritual bond that meets, attracts, love and find home in the others heart…
Can we discipline our passion in certain categories when it comes to looks?
Can someone who was always into very skinny girls accept and love a big girl?
Can a girl who always liked athletes care for someone with a huge belly?
This can happen if with time they got to know the other person and there was a spiritual attraction…but can it happen at first sight?
Believe me it can…آ spiritآ can do that or how would a married man still find his wife irresistible even after she develops the pregnancy stretch marks and the saggy stuff here and there?
Have you watched “SHREK”â€¦great example:P
I love it and I find it more suitable to grown ups than kids..begad!!
The main point here is not only that we must train ourselves to judge less regarding to looks and maybe with time we’ll find our selves looking beneath all the layers…
But also that we must train ourselves to think highly about US regardless how we look…
If I am someone who gains or looses self esteem from how I look .. then I’m having a serious problem…cause then I maybe smart and funny and kind and pretty too but I won’t know it or feel it..And believe me that will add lots of ugliness upon me that people would find me unattractive…while confidence has a great affect to make me glow with inner and outer beauty…
Come onâ€¦ma bedha kol hal 2adJJآ