Believe me,it doesn’t need dramatic changes from what you know and lived through,to raise a child with solid grounds..
when allah blesses us with children,we realy get happy and overwhelmed by the bless among us..we struggel to know how to perfectly feed and nurture and take good care of our baby..
with time so long ahead of us all the preparenting planes that we dreamed about is forgotten and we raise the child on a day to day basis without thinking ahead or re-evaluating our principals and techniques..
that is why we end up having duplicats of both parents with same characters and same faults..
No..we mustn’t think that they are our children..we made them..we own them..it’s not that at all..
they will grow up and judge you..at least in their hearts..and because it’s our responsibility
to raise correctly ,allah will ask and weigh our deeds with them..
wether you’re a parent or becoming or want to be one..calculate..planeآ and aim for only one thing..that you’re gonna do your best to make them true,human,strong and successful in life..and to teach them the way to paradise..
it’s so strange when we find fathers travel and stay away from their kids and work their bones off just to give his kids enough money to be happy in life..and doesn’t think that without quality time and good parenting and setting religious bases within them,they might end up in hell..3eathan bellah..
the world is full of well educated,rich,jeniouses..that don’t believe in god and all they did in life will be a waste..
we must know that allah created us only to worship him and any thing else is a way of living during our journey of knowing and worshipping allah..
allah won’t ask you what kind of car you bought to your son..but he’ll ask you,did you teach him alsunnah..praying..!!
and when it comes to character..you should cherish being arabic..it’s your identity..
it’s who you are no matter what you do..if you’re dressed as a cowboy or a duke..you’ll still be an arabian..this is what makes you special..
allah chose the middle east to bring out all religions because they are the center of universe..
Islam is great within it self it doesn’t need us to give it value..we need islam to be valuable..teach your kid integraty..make him proud of who he is..despite any flows..
make baby steps to experience that in your life..
you might buy your baby girl ..FULLA..instead of barbie……….
then,you might give your kid the ultimat gift ever…