I heard this true story on alnas wa ana..yesterday:
A lady woke up to find a hundred and fifty missed calls on her mobile phone..and all day long she recieved hundreds of calls asking to meet her..she was shocked and didn’t know what to do..she called her brother and told him what happened to be surprised that the same thing happened to his wife…
That lady is in her fourties..she has a lonely daughter and she is divorced..
She went to the internal affairs min istry…to the internet investegations departmant..and filed a complaint…because those phone calls came to her after her picture was shown on a porn site with her name and number!!
A few days later the police called her and she was shocked that her ex was the one after this scandle…he was seeking revenge!!
And today i happened to read two articals written by Iman and Sugar cubes…related to internet relationships..i know the two subjects aren’t quiet related but it got me thinking..
Where do i stand from all this??
Being me …the real me..has always been my way and my style…not only when it comes to what i show from my real self…no…but also regarding how i react to people and deal with them..
When i get toآ know someone online..i may really like him/her..or i may feel neutral..but sometimes..certain people got really really close to my heart..that i feel them and relate to them..
Trust is becoming a very silly word now a days..and even more silly if we use it to describe our online relations..but really..i trust some of my close online friends..and if i ever find out the opposite i would be sad and shocked like i would with anyother friend who i see daily..
And i am honest when it comes to who i am and how i feel..and i expect that people would believe me and respect me for that..
So valueing someone’s qualities upon having this spritual bond or what i call it the vibes…is really worth something..i want to believe that and i will and if anyone dissappoints my trust it would be a shame..
Some dear friend of mine told me once that the internet is a scarey world…yes it is…but what is good must show..
yes..body language and real life encounters are the best…but let me ask you…haven’t you met liars in real life..??
There are good and bad anywhere..but i don’t know why i hate to fail myself in thinking that the peopel i shared a lot of my deepest thoughtsآ and feelings with are not suitable for that..
I belive inآ myself and that i am just as real..from all my heart..i can hide but i don’t lie..i share a lot because i believe in my judgment..
And meeting someone dissappointing here or there won’t change me or the way i feel about it..
Life as a whole is scarey…but we have to take some risksآ orelse..we would miss precious people..
I won’t be scared of my dear friends that i never saw and maybe will never..like karin or neverland..or fadi....or most of the bloggers on my blog roll..Not to forget my cute sarah rose:)
The internet maybe scarey..but so does any street in Newyork!!آ
And everyone is dying to go to America!!آ آ