It’s so Ignorant, arrogant and In appropriate to sit down, raise a brow and snob on people saying : ” Elmafroodhآ they would do this or that” or say ” she was Elmafroodh to say this or that “.
Again, it’s the amazingly ridiculous ability for people to judge other people…I can’t quiet get the logic of it that two – supposedly – equal , identical and typical creatures point fingers at each other…although i know we do that all the time. but that will never make it OK!!
Doing something among a major amount of people doesn’t make it OK.
now, about what brought that thought up…it’s that nasty word: Elmafroodh, which i hear all the time from people who do not and i repeat DO NOT do what’s Elmafroodh!!
” eh elly heya labsah dah??!! elmafroodh elmo7agaba matelbessh esharb a7mar”
” fe mo7agaba telbes jeans??!! “
” mafeesh 7aga esmaha neqab, da kofr…elmafroodh weshaha yeban! “
” elmafroodh yesali fe elmasjid…da ragel !! “
” elmowazaf elkowaes mayenfa3sh yet2akhar wala d2ee2a”
” mafeesh 7aga esmaha estesna2at…elmafroodh elmabda2 yeb2a wa7ed 3ala tool”
Well, honestly i think all of the above and its similar patternsآ are justآ a bunch of hypocritic crap!
No one has the right to state what should and should not be done when it comes to HUMANS!
If it’s some chemical equation done in the lab then it would be just fine…but human behaviours and feelings are – by nature – kept out of any calculations.
*A red scarf could be a step towards perfection…the person’s way for taking that step.
*The Jeans could be a temporary lapse in self discipline…or an alternative to taking off the 7ejab completely.
*The neqab, 7ijab, beard,آ outfits or any other action as long as it doesn’t involve trespassing on anyone is totally a PRIVATE decision and no one has the right to judge.
*People can’t say this man should pray in the masjid cause 1- he could be having a hard time getting used to prayingآ aslan. 2- Does everyone do everything they SHOULD do?? everything???
*Every employee i encountered who had the time to criticize his colleagues were so crooked himself that it really puzzled me…and with more serious issues than an accurate attendance.
*Every rule MUST haveآ exceptions…it’s only human, it’s what life is and what life should be or else man kind would’ve been still wearing a one piece leather patch and huntingآ in the wild…nothing lasts forever and nothing keeps rising…sunnat allah fel ard!!
Life has to be as various, colorful and diverse as god has made it…and because god knows exactly what everything and everyone is all about- deep inside-, he is FAIR.
We experience mistakes as well as gaining virtues…and that is what life was designed to beآ and that is how we grow, learn and add value to that place called earth.
Has anyone ever thought that criticizing the little that one does may make him/her feel thatآ the effort done to maintain that thing is useless and would lead them to lettingآ go of it completely??
So people, mind your own self and everything – Elmafroodh – will be perfect.